tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6857127480909271511.post8640177960483184507..comments2023-07-01T03:15:10.516-05:00Comments on The Blue Sparrow: Where I'm at todayThe Blue Sparrowhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08196234778836756227noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6857127480909271511.post-22276336178177194322010-06-12T10:37:15.035-05:002010-06-12T10:37:15.035-05:00I'm there with you.I'm there with you.Ebehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01933568282191797153noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6857127480909271511.post-45173611267928657472010-06-10T06:19:37.621-05:002010-06-10T06:19:37.621-05:00This comment has been removed by a blog administrator.宛AshleyRemley1218儒https://www.blogger.com/profile/12838202057376686980noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6857127480909271511.post-84742551185470519682010-06-09T17:42:08.175-05:002010-06-09T17:42:08.175-05:00I think that those stages can be around all your l...I think that those stages can be around all your life but as time moves forward and you heal more you don't visit them as often.Hollyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15431384515813384025noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6857127480909271511.post-49126554538420653522010-06-09T15:06:17.584-05:002010-06-09T15:06:17.584-05:00You are so very right! Grief is a tricky thing and...You are so very right! Grief is a tricky thing and there is no timetable as to where you "should" be. In fact I think that is where we get into trouble when we allow others to dictate where we should be in our grif process. They might be in Acceptance but that doesnt mean that I am there yet. And visa versa. <br /><br />After our loss I went to a wonderful christina counselor and she told me to think of my grief as a circle and that I will cycle through the stages but one day I will be able to find myself in the middle and although the stages are around me a close I will have more tools to be able to navigate the grief waters.Lighthouse Photographyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01581964920297814096noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6857127480909271511.post-76385340225458146412010-06-08T22:32:35.106-05:002010-06-08T22:32:35.106-05:00Man, all I ever do is bounce from stage to stage! ...Man, all I ever do is bounce from stage to stage! I don't think I have ever logically moved from step to step!Maryhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04683239109034382788noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6857127480909271511.post-23548127673883856932010-06-08T20:34:13.031-05:002010-06-08T20:34:13.031-05:00I know what Shandrea is saying cuz that's how ...I know what Shandrea is saying cuz that's how I feel too but then once in a while it sneaks up on me and I feel as raw as the first day I lost Gracie. I guess what I've learned is very similiar that my feeling are my feeling and it's better to not judge how I'm feeling and just roll with it. I'm a lot more understanding of other peoples feelings too. Grief does seem to last and last and I have a feeling it will never be gone.Monicahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09791014849753457498noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6857127480909271511.post-35469785115576175192010-06-08T18:20:31.099-05:002010-06-08T18:20:31.099-05:00Jennifer,
I love this post. Do you think that thou...Jennifer,<br />I love this post. Do you think that though there is acceptance that you can still be in other stages as well. Like for me i know that camron and xavien are in heaven, and that i can't bring them back, but i still miss them , i still cry for them and i still try sometimes to keep busy . So is that possible or have i just not accepted the way i think i have. Sorry if it's too much but i was just wandering. sending you hugs.Shandreahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09940325534777199906noreply@blogger.com